Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Richards-Gate III: This Time It's Personal

Now that Harrogate has taken his stand as to separatung the Person (Richards) from the Art (Kramer), it has become necessary to conduct inquiries into how we are all reacting to the Person. In his initial post on this topic, Harrogate threw in with Shakespeare's Sister and, it seems, most everyone else, lambasting Richards as, in short: an asshole. Between then and now, however, Harrogate's views have broadened, he wishes to somewhat retract the harsh snap judgment. And now, to share why.

As commenters have made clear in earlier threads, it is true that Richards revealed an ugly cankerous thing in his soul, that he crossed a line, and that it would have been just as bad had it been done privately. It is also true that his rant reached significantly beyond political incorrectness and into the dark underbelly of racism. So now that's established. But the question we must all ask ourselves remains: whether we are prepared to allow such an incident to define this man for all time, and define him to such an extent that it actually seeps into the character he created years before he did this thing.

Can anyone honestly look Harrogate in the computer screen and say, without a shred of irony, that they have never said a racist thing or thought a racist thought? A sexist thing, a sexist thought? Shall one of Harrogate's readers now posit themselves as wholly innocent of ever harboring a homophobic thought? An anti-Semitic sentiment? And the list goes on, sadly. And Harrogate sticks his neck out and asserts that his Readers share with him a history of mistakes, some small, some grave, some perhaps even worse than what Richards did in that club.

Indeed, perhaps some of you have even said something terrible in public, and someone heard you and then never saw you again, so that forevermore you remained defined by that terrible moment. Nice thought, isn't it?

Humans in general seem to Harrogate a terribly unforgiving lot, especially when it comes to people they don't know very well. But consider this: maybe it's less important to play the gotcha-game of identifying an ugly thing in a person, than it is to see whether or not that person struggles to deal with, to somehow get beyond the ugly thing. And this applies to ourselves. You hear a lot, for example (especially from liberals like Harrogate), about taking care of the poor, about the madness of "war for oil," about this, about that, and about the other. But really, when you look around, you see everyone driving cars, using credit cards, and generally dominated up to their necks by their own little private lives. Everyone Harrogate knows, including Harrogate himself, is firmly in the grip of corporate gluttony, even though most of us fancy ourselves as seeing through "The Machine."

The point of all this being, ostensibly, Jesus's from long ago. To paraphrase: who are any of us to judge Richards based on this one incident even as we all of us are guilty of things just as bad if not worse? the hypocrisy of it all bothers Harrogate a lot. It really does.

But pshaw, enough of such things. Perhaps Richards the man can learn from what he has done, now that he has seen himself capable of such an ugly thing, perhaps from there he can heal. Must he, really, be pariahed as a racist from now until doomsday because of this incident? Each must search their own heart.

Richards has apologized. Who will stand and give him benefit of the doubt? It will be interesting to see what comes of this.

6 comments:

Southpaw said...

Oh, an apology you say! Let me guess....he was just drunk and honestly not an Anti-Semite...oh wait, wrong celebrity. Oh yes, now I remember, he was just frustrated and not really a racist. Come on.

I will give someone a pass or the benefit of the doubt for a slip of the tongue or a racist thought conceived in a weak moment. But, this guy invoked racial cruelty of the last century and painted an image of racial brutality and sodomy. He then proceeded to repeat perhaps one of the most vile words in the English language. Not slipping but repeating it. (Yes, I know words garner meaning and "vile-ness" from culture. Yes, our culture has made this a vile word).

So, no. No free pass. I could care less about Seinfeld so I don't care if you boycott it or not. But certainly don't excuse it as a weak moment.

P.S. -- It is easy for me to separate actors from art because in most cases, they aren't the ones responsible for it. Actors are good at what they do if they can memorize lines and follow instructions. Writers and directors make the sausage. (This could be different for "Kramer" maybe Richards had more creative input into the character and his lines.) But, in general, I think we give actors way too much credit.

harrogate said...

Who said anything about a free pass, or excusing what he did?

Harrogate agrees that Richards did a terrible thing, he makes that clear in his post.

But there are broader questions at work that subsume Richards and reach into Harrogate's heart, Jason Alexander's heart, Larry David's heart, David Letterman's heart, and yes, Southpaw--your heart.

Have you grown from the worst in you, or have you nurtured it like a potent marijuana plant, coddled it beneath a hydroponic light and allowed it to flourish?

Perhaps Richards will grow from what he has done, from being exposed. One can only hope. And even better, perhaps this incident will allow us to explore our own perversities, to deal with them, and if not to entirely banish, to at least humbly recognize that they are a threat we musn't allow to define us.

Southpaw said...

So, free pass is not the right term. You were calling for sympathy based on our own weaknesses and speaking out against hypocrisy. All I was pointing out is that you can't paint Richards's comments with an "we've all been there" brush.

Further, as long as he denies being a racist (because sir those statements define you as one no matter your frustration level), he is not going to grow.

Either way it won't matter to me, I never found him particularly funny in the first place.

Dr. Peters said...

I'm with Southpaw on this one--he makes the points I would make, especially regarding the lynching reference. That is inexcusable. And from what I understand about the situation, Richards was invited back to the comedy club the next night on condition that he apologize, and he did not. It was only after this became national news and he was banned from the comedy club and his buddy asked him to go on Letterman that he apologized. I am skeptical of the whole apology.

I agree, Harrogate, that this incident provides an opportunity for us to look into ourselves and face the ugliness that might be there. But I also believe that it is beneficial for us to collectively express moral outrage at these words and to insist loudly that this will not be tolerated or easily forgiven. And I think that if we look into our own hearts, as you challenge us to, and see the smallest remnants of this thinking, that we should be outraged at ourselves, as well, and yes, grow from that.

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Dr. Peters said...

Trying this link again:
NPR opinion piece on Richards

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